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Friday, February 8, 2008

A New Phase in RAD

We are entering a new phase in this journey with Reactive Attachment Disorder. We have come to know another family with an adoptive child who is deaf and also has reactive attachment disorder. An important piece of the healing process and home therapy is that the parents are able to take care of themselves first and get relief when they need it. Since we sign and the other family also signs we have decided to help one another. We will be watching the other child whenever they just want to get away on a date or if she becomes violent and extremely disobedient at home. They will be watching Prema under the same circumstances. This can become a very tricky endeavor as we may take on another child for a short time at a moments notice. We are excited to be able to help another family and have options for more relief ourselves. In the past we have interviewed several people for this particular need and have come up without any options due to lack of signing or lack of understanding or willingness to follow through with RAD techniques (some can seem harsh to others). So keep us in your prayers.

3 comments:

djp375 said...

I am so glad that this has come about. I know that you have been hoping to find someone you could work out this type of a arrangement with. Dad and I will be praying that this works out for both families

Good Luck
Mom

angela said...

cool. i'll be praying for that new arrangement. an answer to prayer already that you can have a family with similar struggles AND treatment mindset close enough to do that.

you guys are my heros! give mary/father isacc, the drummer boy and the elimonster a hug from aunt ange.

Unknown said...

I pray this partnering/support thing with the other family works out. I wish I could spend a week with you guys and watch how you guys do it. I know so little about RAD but know I need to learn more.